When I read the first line of the National Association of
Black Social Workers’ “Position Statement on Trans-Racial Adoption”, I was
shocked. It reads, “The National Association of Black Social Workers has taken
a vehement stand against the placement of black children in white homes for any reason.” It goes on to discuss
the idea that black children have different developmental needs than white
children, and that only a black family can “transmit the emotional and
sensitive subtleties of perception and reaction essential for a black child’s
survival in a racist society.” I kind of took offense to these extreme statements. My (Caucasian)
aunt and uncle recently adopted a black child, and they are absolutely
fantastic parents. For someone to say that my cousin is worse off with my aunt
and uncle than he would be with black parents is awful. I can understand that
there would be fewer obstacles if a black child was adopted into a black family
versus a white family, but I don’t think that all black children adopted into a
white family are destined to suffer. I understand that the child also may
question his or her identity more when living with a white family, but again, I
don’t think that that is reason enough to encourage only black families to adopt
black children. I also disagree with the assumption that white people
transracially adopt children because it is “expedient” and not because they
have any concern for the children. Certainly, a big reason for adoption is
because the people want to be parents (which could be seen as selfish in the
eyes of some), but people also adopt because they want to provide a loving home
for a child who needs one. If a loving white family wants to adopt a black
child, is that really worse than leaving the child in foster care? I certainly
don’t think so. The final sentence of the NABSW’s 1972 statement reads that a white
home is “not a suitable placement for black children” and is “totally
unnecessary.” I sincerely hope that this view is not widely shared. I hoped that the more current statement of the NABSW would be more open to the white adoption of black children, but they are still strongly against the idea. Though I
understand that it may be easier if a black child is adopted by a black family,
I think it is wrong to say that a white family is unsuitable for a black child.
-Rachel
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