The reading from
Beggars and Choosers addresses an odd
dynamic between the Concerned United Birthparents and mainstream feminists. It seems ironic that feminists aiming to
empower women would be against an organization such as CUB. However, upon further examination it becomes clear
why this barrier existed. The feminists
during the 1960s and 1970s era were, “deeply concerned with articulating
resistance to the idea . . . that motherhood was the life defining activity”
(116). Because the CUB emphasized a
woman’s “claim to motherhood”, it directly violated a main tenet of feminism at
the time. Additionally, the feminists
did not see adoption as a feminist issue, “because women benefited most from
getting adopted babies” (117). While this
is partially true, it is obvious the group overlooked the flagrant violation of
these mother’s rights. Perhaps the feminist
group feared association with this highly stigmatized group would hinder their own
progress.
One group
addressed frequently in the reading is the National Organization for Women
(NOW). This organization was established
in the 1966 and aimed to make women’s rights equivalent to those of men. Deemphasizing the role of a woman as a mother
was probably a way for the group to avoid a common stereotype. It was in the early years, so a radical
perspective was necessary to establish their platform. Today, I think feminists would be much more receptive
to the birthmother’s concerns. Feminism,
as I understand it, is more about general female empowerment and equality with
men. Conflicts with groups such as CUB
would be seen as detrimental to the overall cause.
Adam Pertman
brings up a valid argument in Adoption
Nation when he addresses the issues which arise when groups attempt to make
progress. He writes, “They’ve done that
in a time-honored fashion among true believers in causes of virtually any kind:
by diluting their strength with internal squabbles over how to use their
resources” (150). Pertman is referring
to groups attempting to reform adoption practice, but he acknowledges these
conflicts are present in any group. In
the early years, feminism was strongly against groups like CUB because they did
not recognize their concerns as part of their agenda. Although it is probable that they would be more
empathetic today, they could still ignore their concerns if they did not want
to devote precious resources toward that particular cause.
Reanna NelsonSolinger, R. (2001). "Clamining rights in te era of choice: Part II: Concerned united birthparents," fromBeggars and choosers: How the politics of choice shapes adoption, abortion, and welfare in the United States. NY: Hill and Wang, p.103-138.

Graded reply:
ReplyDeleteI thought you made an interesting point by saying that perhaps the “feminist group feared association with this highly stigmatized group (birthmothers) would hinder their own progress.” We talked about this in class how the feminists more so identified with the adoptive parents than they did with the birthmothers. Feminists could have possibly distanced themselves from birthmothers because the feminists believed that the birthmothers had a choice for adoption (Solinger, 177). Solinger stated that some feminists were either misinformed or ignored to realize that birthmothers didn’t have a choice in reality. Another possible reasoning that clubs like CUB were not very welcomed by groups like NOW could lie in the perception of birthmothers. During that time, society looked down upon birthmothers – some even went as far as to believe birthmothers were mentally sick. Feminists might have been worried that an association with birthmothers would cause society to look down upon their movement. I still wonder how feminists failed to realize that they were fighting for much of the same rights that birthmothers were fighting for during the 60s and 70s. The fact that feminists did not succeed in making that connection makes me believe that they purposefully overlooked birthmothers, rather than the feminists innocently not knowing.
-Jill Yanish